How To Talk About Senior Living Communities
Starting a conversation with a loved one about moving to a senior living community doesn’t need to be difficult. If you’re feeling nervous, uncomfortable or guilty bringing up the subject, read these tips to make the conversation a little easier.
Talking to Your Children About Senior Living Communities
If you’re thinking about moving to a senior living community, you may be concerned about how your children will react. To help them feel more comfortable, try these tips:
• Make a family decision. Allow your children to be part of the decision-making process. Let them ask questions and voice their concerns.
• Arm them with research. Give your children as much information as possible about the senior living communities you’re considering.
• Talk when you’re at your best. Choose a moment when you and your loved ones are rested and feeling well.
Talking to Your Parents About Senior Living Communities
As hard as it may be to start a discussion with your parents about them moving to a senior living community, it can reduce a lot of stress—and even prevent a serious emergency—in the long run. Try these suggestions for a smoother conversation:
• Be prepared. Do your research before the conversation takes place so you can provide thorough information about senior living, assisted living and independent living options.
• Let everyone have a role. Invite all parties involved to talk openly about options. Make sure your loved ones feel their concerns are being heard.
• Talk when you’re at your best. Choose a moment when you and your loved ones are rested and feeling well.
• Choose a partner. Consider inviting a trusted outside party to join in the discussion, such as a family physician, clergy member or family friend.
• Listen. Hearing and understanding your parents’ wishes and concerns is imperative to help create the senior lifestyle they want and deserve.
• Revisit. Don’t expect to reach a decision instantly. Many people discuss senior living options over the course of several communications, and it is important to give your loved ones some time to absorb the information you share.
Resident Roz K. and daughter Heather talk about the decision to move out of her home and into an Atria Senior Living Community. Click play button to watch video.